Longtime 90 Day Fiancé fans remember them as teenagers in the background of their mom’s wildest storylines — rolling their eyes at Jesse and weighing in on Tom. Now, Darcey’s daughters Aniko and Aspen Bollok are young adults with lives of their own, and Stacey Silva’s sons are grown men who have deliberately stayed out of the spotlight. In 2026, the Silva kids are writing very different next chapters.
Aniko Bollok: From Teen on TV to a New York Career Woman
Aniko, Darcey’s elder daughter, was 18 in early 2022, according to reports — which puts her around 22 now. Viewers first met her as a teenager navigating her mom’s chaotic love life, but she has since carved out her own lane. According to TV Insider’s October 2025 family roundup, Aniko now works as a Client PR Manager at a New York City firm, competed in the Miss Connecticut Teen USA pageant, and has built her own social media following.
Aniko has spoken candidly about growing up in the shadow of her mom’s fame. In a Teen Vogue interview, she said it was always Darcey’s biggest dream to be on TV — and that the family once tried to shop a Kardashian-style show called The Twin Life that never aired. She watched her mom chase the dream, then chose a career behind the scenes instead.
Aspen Bollok: The College Chapter
Aspen, the younger Bollok sister, was 15 in early 2022, making her about 19 now. According to TV Insider, Aspen is currently a student at the University of Connecticut, where she is a member of the Alpha Phi sorority, and she stays active on Instagram and TikTok. What fans love most is how normal her chapter feels: college, a sorority, friends, and the occasional appearance in her mom’s orbit — without making reality TV her whole identity. Darcey once told TV Insider how proud she is of both girls, saying viewers watched them “grow up” into “beautiful young ladies.”
Stacey’s Sons: The Mystery Men of the Silva Family
Then there is the other half of the Silva next generation. Stacey Silva shares two sons, Parker and Mateo Vasic, with her ex-husband Goran Vasic, a former professional soccer player. Unlike Darcey’s daughters, Stacey’s sons have never been regulars on Darcey & Stacey — and that is by design.
Stacey has said her sons are private people who could appear on the show “maybe one day,” but that they are “behind the scenes” and “a part of my life” on their own terms. According to Screen Rant’s 2023 report on Stacey’s rare throwback posts, she proudly called her sons “grown men in college now doing big things,” sharing beach throwbacks from their younger Los Angeles days. The family has kept recent details deliberately scarce — and fans mostly respect that.
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One Family, Two Very Different Playbooks
Put the four Silva kids side by side and the contrast is striking. Darcey’s daughters grew up in front of the cameras and stayed comfortable with a public-facing life. Stacey’s sons chose the opposite: private lives, no regular screen time, and a mom who fiercely protects that boundary. Same famous family, same Middletown roots, totally different approaches to fame.
Underneath it all is a quieter story: co-parenting that actually works. Darcey and her ex-husband Frank Bollok, who remarried in 2018, have maintained what reports describe as a functional, respectful co-parenting relationship — a rarity in a franchise built on breakups.
So here is the question that splits every Silva family debate: which next-generation path do you respect more — Aniko and Aspen stepping into the spotlight on their own terms, or Parker and Mateo staying private no matter how famous their mom gets? Should the Silva kids get their own spinoff, or is it better that some of this family stays off camera? Drop your take in the comments.
