1. Two Different Journeys — Not Meant to Be Compared
Amy and Tammy Slaton, stars of 1000-Lb Sisters, both started their weight loss paths under very different circumstances.
- Amy began around 406 lbs and qualified for bariatric surgery much earlier.
- Tammy, on the other hand, faced far more obstacles — weighing over 600 lbs, struggling with multiple health issues, and spending time in rehab.
So when Tammy compares their progress, Amy feels like she’s being drawn into a “race” that was never fair to begin with. Their situations, motivations, and timelines simply don’t match.
2. Comparison Creates Pressure and Strains Their Relationship
Amy has admitted that she sometimes feels like she’s “walking on eggshells” around Tammy, afraid that anything she says could trigger a conflict.
When Tammy brings up comparisons — who lost more weight, who’s more disciplined — it adds unnecessary pressure. Amy may feel:
- Judged by someone else’s standards.
- Forced to maintain her “lead,” as if it’s a competition.
- Emotionally distant from her sister, because support turns into rivalry instead of teamwork.
3. Different Mindsets and Motivations
Amy’s motivation has always been deeply personal — she wanted a healthier life, the ability to have kids, and a more active future.
Tammy’s reasons are tied to life-threatening health conditions and the desire to regain mobility and independence.
So when Tammy says things like “I’ve lost X pounds” or “I’ve achieved Y,” Amy might feel that the comparison ignores how different their challenges are. Each woman’s success is valid in her own way — but not identical.
4. Comparisons Undermine Individual Effort
Weight loss isn’t just about the number on the scale — it’s about consistency, mental health, and small victories along the way.
Amy might feel that when Tammy compares their results, it minimizes her effort or makes it seem “easier” for her because she started smaller or had surgery earlier.
That perception can be frustrating, especially when Amy has fought hard for every milestone.
5. Support, Not Competition, Matters Most
Ultimately, both sisters benefit when they support each other instead of comparing numbers.
Amy likely wants Tammy to focus on her own success and recognize her progress without turning it into a contest.
Healthy motivation comes from encouragement, not rivalry.