The unique wedding of groom Wu Shuai and bride Ou Qian took place in the city of Namsong, Sichuan province, China. When the couple stepped onto the stage, they stunned the guests with the groom dressed in a feminine and graceful white wedding dress, while the bride appeared elegant and mature in a traditional black suit.
Wu revealed that the idea was actually proposed by the bride, but he initially refused. The couple first met at a friend’s wedding in 2011, where Ou was a thin girl weighing only 40kg with a height of 172cm. However, over the years, Ou’s weight gradually increased.
As the wedding day approached, Ou felt that she was too overweight and wouldn’t look beautiful and delicate in a wedding dress. Therefore, she decided to suggest exchanging wedding attire with Wu.
After being persuaded by his fiancée, Wu finally agreed. “Sometimes you have to put yourself in her shoes. It also shows a serious and sincere attitude towards marriage,” Wu explained.
Pu Huan, the head of the wedding planning company for the young couple, revealed that Ou’s father had passed away, so there was no one to hold her hand and lead her into the wedding hall. To make up for this absence, the groom agreed to wear a wedding dress on this important day to please her.
5 signs that he really loves you:
1. He always prioritizes you.
When a man loves you, he will make decisions with you in mind. This is not just because he wants to spend time with you, but because he sees you as a part of his future. A study by the European Journal of Psychology called this compassionate love, which is intimacy, trust, and commitment. This is a higher level of romantic love. Small acts of kindness and generosity are signs that a man loves you and is willing to do anything for you.
2. He invests a lot of time in the relationship.
Researchers have found that the way a person invests in a relationship shows their level of attachment to that relationship. People are more likely to commit to a relationship when they feel satisfied with their partner, perceive their partner as better than other options, and feel that they are receiving a comparable amount of investment. It may not sound romantic, but if he’s devoting all his time to you, it reveals that he’s in love with you.
3. He wants you to see him at his best.
When men feel emotionally unstable and vulnerable, they usually try to hide their emotions by limiting their contact with others. This is especially true in romantic relationships, as men never want their loved ones to see them as weak. Therefore, if you are the person that he wants to protect, he will always try to show you his strengths and best qualities to make you feel safe.
4. He always listens to you.
A serious relationship always relies on mutual empathy and understanding. A man who truly loves you will always make time to listen to you, no matter how busy he is. He may not be able to offer an immediate solution, but the fact that he listens to your concerns shows that he respects you and values you as the center of his world.
5. He compromises even when you don’t ask.
Every relationship requires commitment from both parties. The difference is that in a non-romantic relationship, this happens out of obligation. But a man who truly loves you will be willing to give up his own hobbies and interests for you.