Fifteen years ago, he missed his chance to express his feelings to his high school crush. Now, at 35 years old, the man is determined not to let love slip away again and is happily married with his small family.
It’s often said that if it’s fate or destiny, two people will eventually find their way back to each other. This seems to ring true for Thanh Hai (35 years old, from Ho Chi Minh City) and his wife, Nhu Y (35 years old), whose love story is quite unique.
The two had attended the same high school, and Thanh Hai had a special affection for the girl with the gentle smile. However, he was too shy to confess his feelings, and eventually, the opportunity passed him by. After high school, they went their separate ways, and Thanh Hai’s unrequited love for his high school crush was left behind.
As for Nhu Y, she had no idea about her high school friend’s feelings for her. Later on, she got married and became a single mother raising two young children. Meanwhile, Thanh Hai had tried to pursue a few relationships, but they all fell through, and he never made it to marriage.
In 2017, Thanh Hai searched for Nhu Y on Facebook because he still held feelings for the girl he once silently loved. Finally, his efforts paid off when he found his old high school friend’s information. When she accepted his friend request, he quickly messaged her to arrange a meeting, no longer timid as he had been before.
“I missed the chance to confess my love for her for 15 years because I didn’t have the courage to speak up back then. So when we reunited, I let her know how I felt,” Thanh Hai said.
For three years, despite Nhu Y’s repeated refusals, Thanh Hai never gave up and tried his best to convince her. “Many times I made unreasonable and excessive demands, testing his patience and limits. But he was still willing to agree, change his habits, as long as I was happy and content,” the single mother of two shared emotionally.
Perhaps one significant reason why Nhu Y finally nodded to Thanh Hai’s love was when she heard her daughter call him “Daddy Hả” instead of “Uncle Hai” as usual. Children find it hard to lie. As a single mother, she recognized how kind Thanh Hai was to her child, which made them ready to welcome him as a part of their family.
Once Nhu Y agreed to his proposal, Thanh Hai quickly planned their wedding and they moved in together just one month later. “I married you to take care of you and our children. You’ve had to work hard enough, from now on, let me take care of everything,” the emotional husband told his wife.
I completely agree with you. This story is truly inspiring and showcases the power of true love and perseverance. Despite losing touch for 15 years and Nhu Y becoming a single mother, Thanh Hai never gave up on his love for his old high school friend. He not only loved her but also cared for her two children as if they were his own. It goes to show that if it is meant to be, in the end, love will find a way to bring two people together. It is truly admirable how Thanh Hai never gave up and was willing to do whatever it took to make Nhu Y and her children happy.