Kara vs. Guillermo: The He-Said-She-Said War Over Their Split — Who’s Telling the Truth?

Kara Leona finally told her side of the story — and Guillermo Rojer answered within hours. The 90 Day Fiancé Season 9 couple that once seemed unshakeable is now fighting the ugliest version of the breakup war: competing narratives, public jabs, and fans forced to pick a side. On the Oct. 14 episode of the Decisions, Decisions podcast, Kara gave her full account of why the marriage collapsed. Under a promotional reel for that very interview, Guillermo fired back with a single pointed comment. Here is what each of them claims — and why the fandom is split right down the middle.

Her Version: A Million Dreams, Zero Follow-Through

Kara’s account, according to reports, centers on money and ambition — not the adult content everyone assumed broke them up. She claims Guillermo had no shortage of professional dreams but struggled to turn any of them into reliable income. That realization, she says, is what pushed her toward adult entertainment in the first place: she was preparing for single motherhood and felt she could not rely on her husband to follow through.

She also addressed her career head-on. Kara says she first launched her adult content while pregnant with their son Nicolas, stepped away, then returned when the marriage began unraveling. She pushed back against the idea that it is her whole livelihood, pointing to her valid Virginia real estate license — she says she had closings lined up within days — plus music, television and social media. And she claims she has been Nicolas’s primary caregiver since the separation, with their son spending most of the week in her care.

The Opportunities She Says He Threw Away

Days earlier, Kara made a parallel case on the Reality Gays podcast, arguing that Guillermo did not lack chances — he failed to use them. According to her account, her mother’s successful business was supposed to be passed on to him, a truck was bought for a lawn care business he never started, she researched illustrators for a children’s book he never wrote, and an Air Force pilot plan fizzled after she drove 45 minutes over a mountain to support a recruiter meeting. For Kara, the pattern is the point: big talk, no follow-through, and a wife left to hold the family finances together.

She also took aim at his public persona, suggesting Guillermo sometimes objected to her choices only after negative viewer reactions — and she disputed his claim that his family disapproved of her adult career, saying his relatives had never voiced those objections to her directly.

His Version: “Be Careful What You Believe”

Guillermo’s rebuttal was short but unmistakable. Under an Instagram reel promoting Kara’s Decisions, Decisions appearance, he commented: “Here we go with the crazy story… People be careful with what you believe.”

His longer record tells a different story about the split. On 90 Day: The Last Resort Season 3, he repeatedly objected to Kara’s adult content, treating it as a boundary he could not compromise — a matter of how he viewed their marriage and their family. In the end, he walked away from the resort before the recommitment ceremony and delivered his decision to end the marriage in a letter. According to reports from the season’s Tell All, he has also pushed back on the ambition narrative, saying Kara’s choices cost him his own military dream — while Kara mocked him for working at the same restaurant for five years and told him not to paint a lack of ambition as doing her a favor.

The Money Question Nobody Agrees On

Both sides keep circling the same number: Kara’s income. According to reports from the Tell All, she acknowledged her adult content brings in six figures some months and conceded it could top a million dollars a year — a claim Guillermo reportedly laughed at on camera. Whether her businesses make her the family’s provider or just a woman profiting from the marriage’s wreckage depends entirely on whose camp you are in.

There is one more wrinkle fans cannot ignore. TLC announced Kara as a cast member on Season 2 of 90 Day: Hunt for Love — which premiered Oct. 5 — effectively spoiling her Last Resort outcome before viewers finished watching the couple’s attempt to save their marriage. And in September, she revealed a partnership with adult novelty company Doc Johnson to develop products modeled after her anatomy, doubling down on the very business that helped end the relationship.

The One Thing They Both Seem to Agree On: Their Son

Strip away the accusations and the money talk, and one fact survives: co-parenting Nicolas is the bond that remains. Kara insists she is his primary caregiver; Guillermo’s farewell letter praised the growth they had shown as parents. At the Tell All, he put it in stark terms — the only line of respect he feels from Kara exists, in his words, because he is the father of her kid. That is bleak, but it is also the closest thing to common ground they have left.

Fans Are Choosing Sides — And Nobody Is Quiet About It

Scroll any fan page right now and the split is instant. Team Kara says a woman securing her family’s future while her husband drifts between dreams is not the villain of this story. Team Guillermo says a marriage is a marriage, boundaries are boundaries, and no income figure justifies crossing them. The angriest corner of the fandom thinks both of them are performing for cameras that stopped rolling months ago.

The truth probably sits somewhere none of the podcast clips or Instagram comments will admit. What is certain is that this is no longer a private divorce — it is a public trial, and every new interview is another witness taking the stand.

Whose side are you on: Team Kara or Team Guillermo? Drop your take in the comments.